Going through a separation or divorce? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to navigate the legal process alone either. Whether you’re working through financial agreements or child custody arrangements, it’s essential to protect your rights and ensure your agreements are enforceable. That’s where a Consent Order comes in.
At Barli Law LLC, we’re here to break down this legal tool in a way that’s clear, practical, and relevant to your situation.
Understanding Consent Orders: Legal Protection for Your Agreement
A Consent Order is a legally binding document that formalizes an agreement between two parties—typically ex-spouses or separated partners—after a divorce or separation.
What does it do?
It turns private agreements into enforceable court orders, without the need for a contested court hearing.
This can include:
- Division of property and assets
- Child custody and parenting schedules
- Spousal or child support arrangements
Consent Orders are approved by a family law judge, but since both parties have agreed beforehand, it often avoids the stress and cost of going to trial.
Types of Consent Orders
Consent Orders can be tailored to fit the specific needs of your family. Common examples include:
1. Financial Consent Orders
Secure the division of:
- Property and real estate
- Savings, investments, or pensions
- Debts and liabilities
2. Parenting or Custody Consent Orders
Outline:
- Where the child will live
- Visitation schedules
- Schooling and medical decisions
3. Spousal Maintenance Consent Orders
Set clear terms for:
- Ongoing financial support
- Payment schedules
- Duration of support
Why a Consent Order Matters
When relationships end, clarity and protection matter more than ever. A Consent Order provides:
- Legal certainty: Both parties must follow the terms or face legal consequences.
- Peace of mind: Prevents future disputes by locking in the agreement.
- Cost-effective solutions: Avoids lengthy litigation.
- Enforceability: Unlike informal agreements, Consent Orders are recognized and upheld by the court.
How to Apply for a Consent Order
Here’s a simplified overview of the process:
- Reach an agreement — through private negotiation, mediation, or legal assistance.
- Have the Consent Order drafted — usually by an attorney to ensure it’s legally sound.
- Submit paperwork to the court — including supporting forms like Form A or Form D81 for financial orders.
- Wait for court approval — no hearing is usually required if everything is in order.
Important: Both parties must voluntarily agree to the terms. The court won’t approve an order that seems unfair or coerced.
What If One Party Doesn’t Follow the Order?
A Consent Order is not just a suggestion—it’s a court order. If one party breaches it, the other can:
- Apply to the court to enforce the order
- Seek financial compensation or other remedies
- In some cases, request that the order be varied due to significant life changes
Do You Need a Lawyer for a Consent Order?
Technically, no—but practically, it’s highly recommended.
Here’s why:
- A lawyer ensures your agreement is fair and legally enforceable
- They help you avoid loopholes or vague language
- They protect your rights and interests during negotiations
At Barli Law LLC, we specialize in crafting personalized legal solutions that stand the test of time—and the scrutiny of the court.
Common Misconceptions About Consent Orders
Let’s set the record straight:
- “We’re amicable, so we don’t need one.”
Even amicable agreements can go wrong. A Consent Order provides protection if things change later on. - “It’s the same as a court ruling after a trial.”
Not quite. A Consent Order is voluntary and avoids trial altogether, which makes it more efficient and less adversarial. - “We can change it anytime.”
Only the court can vary a Consent Order once it’s approved—and only under specific circumstances.
Take the First Step Toward Legal Clarity
Whether you’re finalizing your divorce or just beginning to sort out financial or parenting arrangements, a Consent Order can offer the legal security you deserve.
Let’s work together to protect your rights and secure your peace of mind.
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